Comments on: On Soul Connections and Soul mates

By: Asha Amal

Asha Amal — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 13:11:41 +0000

Hi Astrid,
People who come and go in our life have some purpose.. Nothing is just a coincidence.But the people who leaves us in the middle would have come to teach us a lesson. What is the lesson that he has teached you? That u only have to find. Soulmate is the one whose destiny is interlinked with ours. They will hold your hands till the end. Sometimes we think someone as our soulmate but they will not even look at us.. In that case its we who want them to be our soulmates and they they are not destined to be ours… We should let go of them… there is no use of holding on to them and confuse ourselves… they will definitely have a lesson to teach us and nothing more… our mind will give thousand reasons to us to believe that they are ours… but don believe.. our mind sometimes play tricky things on us Let go of him and be happy ur soulmate is yet to come.. u don have to search him… he ll find u…

By: Raq

Raq — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 13:07:01 +0000

Hello,
Very interesting read… I was looking for some sort of explanation for my situation… I beleive I am a very strong person mentally and spiritually but am struggling to let go of my ex. We have been friends for 10 yrs, in a relationship for 7 ( with a 2 yr brake between). I feel right with him, at peace, happy. He recently cheated on me… Something that I always said would be what makes me walk away for good! I can’t! My mind is telling me run but that feeling in my gut says he needs me, that we need each other! He told me he didn’t want to have children with me yet I still feel this pull to him!!! Why??? What does my soul want?

By: moshe

moshe — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 04:25:24 +0000

Read most of your material of the website. You seem to be one of the good guys. Found you by inquiring about ‘automatic writing.’ Thanks…

By: astrid

astrid — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 18:28:38 +0000

hi there

i met a guy july 2010..from the first day we met, i felt like i had known him for years..so comfortable in his presence..i could just be totally myself..
however, he was a recovering addict..of which i only found out after 2 months of being together..
he had very manipulating ways..cheated virtually with other women..caught him so many times…promised it would stop but it always started again…became suicidal..to a point of locking me up and making me watch..
i left him because of this, but then the attempts just got worse..
i knew the relationship was destructive…but we also had our good times and when they were good they were really good..
i would break up with him in the hope that he would stop hurting himself, even though it killed me to be away from him…we would always end up back together..
on the december 19th, i came home from work and found him, he had hung himself..
i have never experienced such pain in my life but strangely also relief…
i had a person contact me after his death saying he talks to her etc etc…after conversations, this person eventually became very nasty towards me..
my question,,would this have been a soul mate or a lesson..
what happens to a suicide in the other world,,,,can that person still connect with this world and if so how…

By: Kelly

Kelly — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 01:57:52 +0000

Yes, I have definitley experienced this. Didn’t understand it this clearly, and now knowing this better, helps quite a bit with a couple of recent experiences. Thank you.

Do you actually read all of these? Thanks for your efforts.

By: Erica S

Erica S — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:08:32 +0000

Hi Anna,

I recently stumbled across your website whilst researching automatic writing and have read with interest some of your articles. (looking forward to the ones I haven’t got around to yet)

This post on Soul-mates is great, and I do believe that I have been blessed with being able to connect with most of mine. Here’s an example of two.

My best friend, whom I no longer see since moving across country was I believe my first connection. We came from two different up-bringings, shared different views and friends, I would even go so far as to say we were like chalk and cheese, but at the same time fused together. Many times, I picked up the phone to call her only to find her already on the other end of it. She would say something just as I was thinking it, and visa versa and we shared a humour that no one else got.

When she had her first child I knew things would change as the priorities did, and selfishly felt as if a part of me had been lost. (Don’t get me wrong, I wasn’t jealous of her son or family, just felt incomplete) On the day she gave birth I went with her partner and sister in law to wet the babies head, and met this guy in the pub. We hit it off straight away. We have been together 22 years this year (married 12), and don’t get me wrong, we’ve had some serious problems, including a 4 year break. (although we still saw each other) but we complete each other.
I also believe we were destined to meet because he lived about 5 miles from where I did, but used to play football in my local park, I used to go to school where he lived. We worked within sight of each other, but never met until that night. He had walked past that pub at least twice a week for 3 years without ever going in until then. I wrote his phone number down wrong, (No such thing as mobiles for average people back then) and once I found out, actually threw it away angry and upset, but the next day found it on the floor next to the bin. When I looked at it something said to me 3 not 5 and I dialled the number again exchanging the 5 for a 3, and he answered.

Like I say, we haven’t been without our problems, but even now as I type this thinking about him, he has called me (he works away).

Thank you Anna, for your site. It is very informative and enlightening. I grew up in a very spiritual family but still have so much to learn, I look forward to the rest of your site.

God bless

Erica S

By: Jalissa

Jalissa — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 04:06:00 +0000

This is amazing. I’m going through this right now and my friend always says he feels like he already knows me and he wants to find out what that feeling is. It feels so good and the feeling is mutual. I’m ready to see where this is gonna go.I’m scared it’s gonna end badly but I have a feeling he is my soul mate. We have a strong connection and I want him in my life no matter what.

By: Dany

Dany — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 01:35:16 +0000

This is interesting. I never gave any attention to this kind of subjects but my life took a complete different course after an experience I had last summer. I met this old friend I always had a very powerful attraction for. He appeared in a very difficult time in my life. He is a very courageous person doing all extreme things, strong introverted personality. We made love and after this short strange time we spent together it is like I received a part of him. I became more powerful, energetic and competitive. It is like he transferred a part of him to me and that part was exactly what I needed to be able to deal with my problems. I wonder if it is also happening to him and what would he have got from me?

By: Leigh

Leigh — Sun, 25 Dec 2011 21:08:55 +0000

I really do understand what you are going through. My friends think Iam crazy. And I am making myself nuts, thinking about it. I really don’t understand what’s going on.

I e-mailed him and he didnt reply. So,I was trying to let go.
I was in his country for two days, hanging out with friends. Felt that he was out of the country…Told myself to forget him and get on with my life.

Then this morning I ran into him at the airport.I was in the lift .I had to get off and he was getting in . My heart skipped a beat.He said “HI” and went on his way. Like I was not even there…

Maybe ,I am the only one that feels this attraction.

By: Akhilesh S A

Akhilesh S A — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 12:03:24 +0000

Hi Annna…….

I can fully relate to what you are saying. I had such an experience in first year of my college and it ended up very badly after three years. I had so much passion and attachment to that relationship that I find myself living that experience almost everyday of my life.

It might be a soul contract or past life tie as you said because it was that much of a charged experience. I haven’t recovered it from it even now. I sometimes try to find the answer through past life regression and meditation but it hasn’t helped.May be the relationship had served its purpose.

I wish I could share insights that I learned but looking back it seems as though that encounter was destined for me.

Thank you for sharing this…