Comments on: 3 Mindsets to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Relationships http://www.psychicbutsane.com/relationships-and-love/how-to-maintain-good-energetic-boundaries-in-relationships Down-to-earth information for developing psychic abilities Sun, 01 Aug 2010 00:47:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: How to Maintain Healthy Boundaries | Extra Sensory Perception - Intuitive and Spiritual Development Blog http://www.psychicbutsane.com/relationships-and-love/how-to-maintain-good-energetic-boundaries-in-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-8063 How to Maintain Healthy Boundaries | Extra Sensory Perception - Intuitive and Spiritual Development Blog Tue, 11 May 2010 05:47:13 +0000 http://www.psychicbutsane.com/?p=169#comment-8063 [...] about how to set boundaries with people in relationships. (I wrote about boundaries in my article ‘3 Mindsets to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Relationships’ as this was something that used to affect most of my relationships in a negative [...]

[...] about how to set boundaries with people in relationships. (I wrote about boundaries in my article ‘3 Mindsets to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Relationships’ as this was something that used to affect most of my relationships in a negative [...]

]]> By: Paulo http://www.psychicbutsane.com/relationships-and-love/how-to-maintain-good-energetic-boundaries-in-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-2233 Paulo Mon, 07 Sep 2009 17:08:19 +0000 http://www.psychicbutsane.com/?p=169#comment-2233 "Maintaining good boundaries is about letting go of your ideas that you know what another needs and that you can anticipate it. That’s not your job – it’s theirs. And likewise, you need to let go of the idea that others should know what you want and need without you communicating it. That way everyone saves a whole lot of energy." "To help you maintain healthy boundaries, remember that no-one actually needs you." That's some of the best advice I've received in along time. Thanks. Sincerely, Paulo “Maintaining good boundaries is about letting go of your ideas that you know what another needs and that you can anticipate it. That’s not your job – it’s theirs. And likewise, you need to let go of the idea that others should know what you want and need without you communicating it. That way everyone saves a whole lot of energy.”

“To help you maintain healthy boundaries, remember that no-one actually needs you.”

That’s some of the best advice I’ve received in along time. Thanks.
Sincerely,
Paulo

]]> By: Anna http://www.psychicbutsane.com/relationships-and-love/how-to-maintain-good-energetic-boundaries-in-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-2095 Anna Sun, 30 Aug 2009 16:40:38 +0000 http://www.psychicbutsane.com/?p=169#comment-2095 Hi Rebecca, These comments are for sharing (ranting included! :) ) I had a thought regarding your writing - (I don't know whether you're referring to your blog, I checked it out and saw a load of helpful articles on there!) - are you marketing your writing and making sure it ends up on people's screens? I ask that because I think that creating (writing) is the giving part of the equation, and to receive back (i.e. monetize it and also feel rewarded in other ways) I'm sure you know that you have to market your work consistently. (Creating is the giving part, leveraging what you created is the receiving part.) That's something I've been learning recently about through blogging coaching, so I'm not an expert in receiving back through writing. But it's a point that came into my head when I saw your comment - so maybe it could be applicable to you? Much love, Anna Hi Rebecca,

These comments are for sharing (ranting included! :) )

I had a thought regarding your writing – (I don’t know whether you’re referring to your blog, I checked it out and saw a load of helpful articles on there!) – are you marketing your writing and making sure it ends up on people’s screens?

I ask that because I think that creating (writing) is the giving part of the equation, and to receive back (i.e. monetize it and also feel rewarded in other ways) I’m sure you know that you have to market your work consistently.

(Creating is the giving part, leveraging what you created is the receiving part.)

That’s something I’ve been learning recently about through blogging coaching, so I’m not an expert in receiving back through writing. But it’s a point that came into my head when I saw your comment – so maybe it could be applicable to you?

Much love,
Anna

]]> By: Rebecca http://www.psychicbutsane.com/relationships-and-love/how-to-maintain-good-energetic-boundaries-in-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-2094 Rebecca Sun, 30 Aug 2009 16:13:19 +0000 http://www.psychicbutsane.com/?p=169#comment-2094 I really resonated with this article. I feel the same way about my writing as you felt about teaching. I feel like I'm giving a great deal and giving a great deal of ideas without receiving a whole lot back. I also feel like I've been needlessly suffering, especially for the past two years. I moved from Ohio to Arizona and it's been an uphill battle. I've learned to set my boundaries and take my power back. Actually, I believe I had to find my power to get it back. I keep hearing that everything I need is inside of me. I've been trying to manifest an abundance of finances, friends, romance, clients, etc...but nothing has manifested. Each day I find myself becoming more frustrated, aggravated, disappointed, and have an "I don't care" attitude. I feel like I've wasted a lot of time trying to transform my life because I'm still not happy and haven't received the life I desire. Don't know what I'm doing wrong. Sorry for a little ranting. I really resonated with this article. I feel the same way about my writing as you felt about teaching. I feel like I’m giving a great deal and giving a great deal of ideas without receiving a whole lot back. I also feel like I’ve been needlessly suffering, especially for the past two years. I moved from Ohio to Arizona and it’s been an uphill battle. I’ve learned to set my boundaries and take my power back. Actually, I believe I had to find my power to get it back.

I keep hearing that everything I need is inside of me. I’ve been trying to manifest an abundance of finances, friends, romance, clients, etc…but nothing has manifested. Each day I find myself becoming more frustrated, aggravated, disappointed, and have an “I don’t care” attitude. I feel like I’ve wasted a lot of time trying to transform my life because I’m still not happy and haven’t received the life I desire. Don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Sorry for a little ranting.

]]> By: Anna http://www.psychicbutsane.com/relationships-and-love/how-to-maintain-good-energetic-boundaries-in-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-1946 Anna Fri, 21 Aug 2009 07:50:08 +0000 http://www.psychicbutsane.com/?p=169#comment-1946 Thank you, Kate :) Thank you, Kate :)

]]> By: Kate http://www.psychicbutsane.com/relationships-and-love/how-to-maintain-good-energetic-boundaries-in-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-1910 Kate Wed, 19 Aug 2009 10:29:58 +0000 http://www.psychicbutsane.com/?p=169#comment-1910 Great article Anna. You write some excellent stuff :) Great article Anna. You write some excellent stuff :)

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