Communicating with Spirits that Are Hanging Around Your Home – Should You Do It?

Over the last 12 months I’ve had plenty of questions about ghosts, poltergeists and general spooky stuff. Seeing as my website is all about the practical aspects of developing intuition, I tend not to focus too much on the spooky stuff. But today is different, being Halloween! So in this short article I’m going to look at one of the spooky questions from the last year.
Question:
I’ve become aware of a presence of a spirit in my apartment. I have started to channel it through automatic writing and dowsing with a necklace. Do you have any tips that can help me to communicate with this spirit?
– Nathaniel
My Thoughts:
Nathaniel, my recommendation would be not to channel it.
There is a huge difference between a roaming spirit that is present in your apartment and the spirits you’re meant to communicate with – your Spirit Guides and your Higher Self.
In my experience, it’s OK to channel your spirit guides, but it’s not good to communicate with random spirits who might be present in your apartment.
Here’s why:
The random spirit in your apartment is called an astral entity. That is the technical name for it. It’s also commonly called a ghost.
An astral entity is a dead person who has not fully crossed over to the astral realm and so a part of them (their emotional or mental body) is still on Earth.
The spirits of dead people (aka astral entities) often hang around hospitals, police stations, funeral parlours, cemeteries, bars, clubs, and hotels.
Why do some people not cross over after death? Well, there can be lots of reasons. One of them is that the person might have been an addict when they were alive, and they are not willing to cross over into a place where there is no alcohol or whatever drug they were addicted to when they were alive.
Another reason might be that the person believed in hell when they were alive, and they’re afraid they’re going there. The reasons are always negative ones, meaning that dead people who stick around here are generally fearful and/or stuck.
So if you communicate with the astral entity (or dead person) in your apartment, you can be sure that you will not be getting good advice. It’s like going up to a homeless drug addict and channelling them. You might get some strange and not so coherent answers. They might mess you around a bit. Try it and see (or preferably just take my word for it!) Channelling a dead person is pretty strange. They change their mind a lot and say weird things.
They also draw on your energy and attach to your aura. This is a little bit draining. But mostly they’re pesky because they give rubbish advice.
(You can find out more about astral entities by reading this article.)
Just because a spirit is not in a body does not make it worth channelling!
This topic is quite timely really, because it has a lot to do with Halloween!

Halloween actually originated with the Ancient Celtic festival of Samhain. Originally people lit fires and wore costumes in order to ward off roaming ghosts (i.e. the spirits of dead people that I’ve been talking about.) There was a reason why they did this:
They knew that we should not channel or have random dead people hanging around, unless they are our ancestors (who are different from lost spirits who are just roaming around) or unless we are helping them to cross over. Astral entities are draining and unhelpful.
Anyone who does psychic development needs to remember this.
Instead, channel your Spirit Guides or your Higher Self.
What are Spirit Guides?
Spirit Guides are very different from random dead people. Spirit Guides were the spirits who were assigned to you at birth and sometimes even before you were even born, to give you advice and guidance throughout your earthly life. These spirits do not draw on your energy at all.
If you’re interested in learning more about spirit guides, read this article: What Are Spirit Guides & How to Work with Them
Your Spirit Guides (unlike random dead people) know you inside out. They know your soul’s path and lessons. They are also high vibrational and can see your life from a high vantage point.
Dead people are simply not very useful beings to have around. So save yourself the trouble of channelling this random spirit in your apartment, Nathaniel, and instead learn to communicate with your Spirit Guides or your Higher Self.
In my Psychic Awakening course we learn how to channel your spirit guides and of course your own soul (also called your ‘higher self’.) We stay away from the astral entities.
I’ve also got some free articles and a free e-book which can start you off.
Here’s the link to download my free e-book if you have not already: 9 Essential Steps to Develop Psychic Abilities
And here are some links to useful articles which focus on spirit guides and other good sources of guidance:
5 Tips and Insights to Help You Work with Your Spirit Guides
Which Is your Strongest Intuitive Gift?
Connecting with Your Higher Self
Happy Halloween!
- Learn to communicate with your spirit guides
- Know your life purpose & soul gifts
- Learn to read auras & know who other people really are

























One time I was dowsing in my apartment and it started saying stuff like, ‘there is no good or evil’ and ‘Hitler is awesome’. I was definitely talking to a bad spirit. Now that I think about it, why was I even asking that shiz? Oh well.
Now I just muscle-test-talk to my higher-self, my spirit guide, and deities, so whatever.
I would do this in my old house but stopped once I realized darker spirits became more present. The whole process attracts too many spirits to handle and not always the best kind either. It would leave me exhausted and claustrophobic in my room.
A voice of reason, finally
. A lot of “psychics” tell their clients or students to go ahead, and communicate with anything that comes close. So dangerous…
I use to say that you never know who’s on the other side, unless you’re really, really experienced. And when you are, you rarely talk to anything that doesn’t belong to light.
Totally agree with you here, Anna. I don’t know why someone would want to communicate with whatever happens to be floating about – I have always intentionally avoided it. It’s just logical, isn’t it.
Anna hello – in that case can you clarify what the situation is with mediums who channel and talk to those that have passed? should we be careful that what they are channelling and telling us is perhaps not the best advice?
Hi MCF,
I am wondering if the distinction between deceased loved ones and astral entities might be a bit blurry for you…
Mediums channel our deceased loved ones and pass on messages from them. It is OK to channel deceased loved ones, as they are sometimes hanging around us or may periodically check in on us.
Astral entities are completely different. They have no association or real relationship with us. They don’t know anything about us, like our deceased loved ones and spirit guides do. They are just lost spirits hanging around. They may indeed be someone’s dearly departed relative but they aren’t ours.
A competent medium will know not to channel astral entities and will be able to protect themselves from channelling astral entities, period. It is a basic thing for mediums and intuitives but you’re right, not all mediums or psychic will know about astral entities and will be able to avoid channelling them.
If you consult with a medium, choose one who comes recommended, who you trust and who seems like they’re sensible and smart.
I want to reach my deceased grandma……….
Hi Anna,
I’m reading articles on this site and a few have peaked my interest. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and stories.
Sometimes–usually when I am listening to silence and relaxing–I pick up on voices. They’ve been unintentional and rare occurrences. It used to frighten me and even made me question my sanity (although, as a student of psychology I’m familiar with and rather confident that I don’t have schizophrenia). I am wondering if what I am hearing are things that are in my own mind, or if I’m picking up on random spirits. The things that come up are bizarre–for instance, talk of dancing–things that really don’t pop into my subconscious very often. Do spirits ever try to communicate in auditory ways?
Hi T,
Yes, spirits do communicate in an auditory way.
http://www.psychicbutsane.com/developing-psychic-abilities-spirit-world/developing-clairaudience
However, it may not be a random spirit talking to you. It may be one of your spirit guides or your higher self. Although if it’s bizarre and makes no sense, it’s almost certainly a random spirit who is stuck on this plane.