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		<title>By: Anna</title>
		<link>http://www.psychicbutsane.com/life-lessons/stop-asking-life-for-permission-to-have-what-you-want/comment-page-1#comment-81606</link>
		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 06:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi fellforit,
That&#039;s great, looks like your guides are saying stop asking, start doing...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi fellforit,<br />
That&#8217;s great, looks like your guides are saying stop asking, start doing&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: fellforit</title>
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		<dc:creator>fellforit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 02:02:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had to post about this sychronicity.  LOL

I had just read this article of yours, Anna - &quot;Stop Asking Life for Permission_ - and then I happened to meditate.  I asked my guides about how to manifest something I really want (and I have a habit of worrying about whether it&#039;s my destiny, etc. and asking the).  So when I asked this time, I got a loud &quot;don&#039;t ask!&quot;.  Ha ha!

I immediately thought of this article.  At least it&#039;s what I hope the message is rather than &quot;stop asking us, we&#039;re bored of the question and there&#039;s nothing we can do.&quot; :p</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had to post about this sychronicity.  LOL</p>
<p>I had just read this article of yours, Anna &#8211; &#8220;Stop Asking Life for Permission_ &#8211; and then I happened to meditate.  I asked my guides about how to manifest something I really want (and I have a habit of worrying about whether it&#8217;s my destiny, etc. and asking the).  So when I asked this time, I got a loud &#8220;don&#8217;t ask!&#8221;.  Ha ha!</p>
<p>I immediately thought of this article.  At least it&#8217;s what I hope the message is rather than &#8220;stop asking us, we&#8217;re bored of the question and there&#8217;s nothing we can do.&#8221; :p</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
		<link>http://www.psychicbutsane.com/life-lessons/stop-asking-life-for-permission-to-have-what-you-want/comment-page-1#comment-74954</link>
		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 17:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;They might say things like ‘maybe I”m just not MEANT to be doing this?&quot; I say this from time-to-time because there are people who say we do have a destiny and what we desire may not be a part of our destiny. How true is this?

BTW: I&#039;ve grown in the past four years and give myself permission to do what I want. I stopped being a people pleaser.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;They might say things like ‘maybe I”m just not MEANT to be doing this?&#8221; I say this from time-to-time because there are people who say we do have a destiny and what we desire may not be a part of our destiny. How true is this?</p>
<p>BTW: I&#8217;ve grown in the past four years and give myself permission to do what I want. I stopped being a people pleaser.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
		<link>http://www.psychicbutsane.com/life-lessons/stop-asking-life-for-permission-to-have-what-you-want/comment-page-1#comment-31380</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2010 09:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Anna,
I enjoyed this post. I do have a question though - what if I have doubts about whether I am &quot;allowed&quot; to RECEIVE something? I don&#039;t so much feel that I need permission to pursue an activity, but right now I&#039;d specifically like to manifest more beautiful clothes (and I don&#039;t currently have the finances to simply buy them). Sometimes when I have a manifestation session, I feel doubts as to whether or not the clothes are &quot;right&quot; for me, or whether that is my &#039;small self&#039; simply wanting more stuff. What do you think?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Anna,<br />
I enjoyed this post. I do have a question though &#8211; what if I have doubts about whether I am &#8220;allowed&#8221; to RECEIVE something? I don&#8217;t so much feel that I need permission to pursue an activity, but right now I&#8217;d specifically like to manifest more beautiful clothes (and I don&#8217;t currently have the finances to simply buy them). Sometimes when I have a manifestation session, I feel doubts as to whether or not the clothes are &#8220;right&#8221; for me, or whether that is my &#8216;small self&#8217; simply wanting more stuff. What do you think?</p>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 11:47:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there Merri!

Thanks for stopping by and leaving your comment! :) I am glad this resonated with you.

Love Anna</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there Merri!</p>
<p>Thanks for stopping by and leaving your comment! <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I am glad this resonated with you.</p>
<p>Love Anna</p>
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		<title>By: Merri Martin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Merri Martin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 17:42:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Anna! 
My name is Merri and I&#039;m a fellow CGW alumni. I came across your blog and website a few months ago and I found this post yesterday. Thank you so much! This has been the story of my life since I&#039;ve come into personal development, I&#039;ve been waiting and asking for someone outside myself to tell me what to do, but no more!
Thanks again and good luck with your new job!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Anna!<br />
My name is Merri and I&#8217;m a fellow CGW alumni. I came across your blog and website a few months ago and I found this post yesterday. Thank you so much! This has been the story of my life since I&#8217;ve come into personal development, I&#8217;ve been waiting and asking for someone outside myself to tell me what to do, but no more!<br />
Thanks again and good luck with your new job!</p>
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		<title>By: Rosh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 18:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love how you are able to say things in such a wonderful, clear, conscise way, Anna! I enjoy reading your articles, they help me sort through myself and gain wisdom and clarity. So thank you. :)

I stumbled upon this article at the right time for myself, I think. I&#039;ve been doing some work on uncovering conficting or unhelpful core beliefs recently, and this really drummed into the realisation that I&#039;ve grown up in a world where I strongly picked up the desire to deny my true self in order to be socially accepted (comes back to that damned people-pleasing...), and that lead me to have the complimentary (although it set me back hugely) belief that i need to obtain permission from an external authority figure for any major decision or change i wanted to make, because i wasn&#039;t enough of an authority on myself, and i couldn&#039;t rock the boat too much. 

so, working on working through and letting go of those, now...
.-= Rosh&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://anastomosinglife.blogspot.com/2010/05/attitudes-values-and-beliefs.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Attitudes, values and beliefs&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love how you are able to say things in such a wonderful, clear, conscise way, Anna! I enjoy reading your articles, they help me sort through myself and gain wisdom and clarity. So thank you. <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I stumbled upon this article at the right time for myself, I think. I&#8217;ve been doing some work on uncovering conficting or unhelpful core beliefs recently, and this really drummed into the realisation that I&#8217;ve grown up in a world where I strongly picked up the desire to deny my true self in order to be socially accepted (comes back to that damned people-pleasing&#8230;), and that lead me to have the complimentary (although it set me back hugely) belief that i need to obtain permission from an external authority figure for any major decision or change i wanted to make, because i wasn&#8217;t enough of an authority on myself, and i couldn&#8217;t rock the boat too much. </p>
<p>so, working on working through and letting go of those, now&#8230;<br />
.-= Rosh&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://anastomosinglife.blogspot.com/2010/05/attitudes-values-and-beliefs.html" rel="nofollow">Attitudes, values and beliefs</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 00:51:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Joseph,

Thanks for your comment - I&#039;m really glad you are enjoying the articles. As for your question, I&#039;m not sure. It could be a cleansing.

If you feel like you are unbalanced, then read this article: http://www.psychicbutsane.com/positive-thinking-and-healing/how-to-avoid-spiritual-addiction-stay-grounded-on-your-spiritual-path

Some people found some of the suggestions uninspiring but they are really great for balancing your energy and shifting your focus.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Joseph,</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment &#8211; I&#8217;m really glad you are enjoying the articles. As for your question, I&#8217;m not sure. It could be a cleansing.</p>
<p>If you feel like you are unbalanced, then read this article: <a href="http://www.psychicbutsane.com/positive-thinking-and-healing/how-to-avoid-spiritual-addiction-stay-grounded-on-your-spiritual-path" rel="nofollow">http://www.psychicbutsane.com/positive-thinking-and-healing/how-to-avoid-spiritual-addiction-stay-grounded-on-your-spiritual-path</a></p>
<p>Some people found some of the suggestions uninspiring but they are really great for balancing your energy and shifting your focus.</p>
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		<title>By: Joseph</title>
		<link>http://www.psychicbutsane.com/life-lessons/stop-asking-life-for-permission-to-have-what-you-want/comment-page-1#comment-8579</link>
		<dc:creator>Joseph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 04:16:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh I also have another comment and question that someone can hopefully answer. 

I think I&#039;m for sure one of those &quot;lollipop&quot; people with the upper chaks engorgered and once before (and now today and probably more often since it&#039;s now my focus) I really concentrated on feeding my root chaks anddd I feel this immense I could say pressure welling up in my lower gut and I almost feel like throwing up but it&#039;s like the pressure from this isn&#039;t coming from my sotmach (like it usually would) but from a level deeper (the root one?) and I&#039;m not really sure how to work with this or what it means... is it an energy clensing or a powering up? How can I play with this... anyway cheers for now and thanks :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh I also have another comment and question that someone can hopefully answer. </p>
<p>I think I&#8217;m for sure one of those &#8220;lollipop&#8221; people with the upper chaks engorgered and once before (and now today and probably more often since it&#8217;s now my focus) I really concentrated on feeding my root chaks anddd I feel this immense I could say pressure welling up in my lower gut and I almost feel like throwing up but it&#8217;s like the pressure from this isn&#8217;t coming from my sotmach (like it usually would) but from a level deeper (the root one?) and I&#8217;m not really sure how to work with this or what it means&#8230; is it an energy clensing or a powering up? How can I play with this&#8230; anyway cheers for now and thanks <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Joseph</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joseph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 04:12:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been reading your blog now for about 5 hours straight.. post after post after post and it&#039;s amazing stuff. The bit about you being great for those finding a career and (I think it was) working on root chakras is bang on! I&#039;ve recently entered a new relationship and wanting to be able to share some fun things (like trips) and thinking more about my future (in detail and what it wil take from a material vs spiritual standpoint) has led me to see that I really need to get my butt in gear (which I have been trying (yes there is no try) to do in my career that&#039;s running along side uni for over a year now) and reading all these blogs is really helping me break through. One HUGE realization (at least for me) I just had is that I may choose to do something or not to do it however I will NEVER let fear dictate this again in any of it&#039;s sneaky forms. I no longer welcome fear in my life.. I&#039;m eradicating it and for sure not acting on it because it does not serve me at all... so my new phrase gleaming on my white board is &quot;what are you actually afraid of&quot; followed by... &quot;ok, now what do you want?&quot; 
I really want to thank you and everyone you collaborate with for these fantastic materials :D 

A little known (at least to most people I talk to) guy that also really helped me is J Krishnamurti so I&#039;m plugging him to a lot of people and thought I&#039;d share him here to :) check him out :)

Cheers,

Joseph</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been reading your blog now for about 5 hours straight.. post after post after post and it&#8217;s amazing stuff. The bit about you being great for those finding a career and (I think it was) working on root chakras is bang on! I&#8217;ve recently entered a new relationship and wanting to be able to share some fun things (like trips) and thinking more about my future (in detail and what it wil take from a material vs spiritual standpoint) has led me to see that I really need to get my butt in gear (which I have been trying (yes there is no try) to do in my career that&#8217;s running along side uni for over a year now) and reading all these blogs is really helping me break through. One HUGE realization (at least for me) I just had is that I may choose to do something or not to do it however I will NEVER let fear dictate this again in any of it&#8217;s sneaky forms. I no longer welcome fear in my life.. I&#8217;m eradicating it and for sure not acting on it because it does not serve me at all&#8230; so my new phrase gleaming on my white board is &#8220;what are you actually afraid of&#8221; followed by&#8230; &#8220;ok, now what do you want?&#8221;<br />
I really want to thank you and everyone you collaborate with for these fantastic materials <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>A little known (at least to most people I talk to) guy that also really helped me is J Krishnamurti so I&#8217;m plugging him to a lot of people and thought I&#8217;d share him here to <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  check him out <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Cheers,</p>
<p>Joseph</p>
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