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		<title>By: Anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 22:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebecca - Amen to that!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebecca &#8211; Amen to that!</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 17:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that not everyone will like you.  Oh well!  Life&#039;s too short to be worried about what other people think.  As long as you like yourself who cares about the naysayers who are probably closed off and miserable in their lives.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that not everyone will like you.  Oh well!  Life&#8217;s too short to be worried about what other people think.  As long as you like yourself who cares about the naysayers who are probably closed off and miserable in their lives.</p>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 06:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jen! That is something I forgot - your own opinion of yourself has to be more important than what other people think of you. After all, you&#039;re the one who has to live with you. 

That reminds me of a Byron Katie quotation - &#039;it&#039;s not your job to like me, it&#039;s mine!&#039;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jen! That is something I forgot &#8211; your own opinion of yourself has to be more important than what other people think of you. After all, you&#8217;re the one who has to live with you. </p>
<p>That reminds me of a Byron Katie quotation &#8211; &#8216;it&#8217;s not your job to like me, it&#8217;s mine!&#8217;</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 06:57:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Anna
It&#039;s funny, as someone else commented this is something I have been thinking about recently too. I can identify with your story - I have a tendancy in the past to be a people pleaser and want everyone to like me and as you said be kind to people even when they are rude but I like your observation - it is about ego isn&#039;t it? ;-). 
More recently I feel like I&#039;m starting to be more authentic, I think as I get older I start to realise that not everyone is going to like me and trying to be &#039;perfect&#039; for everyone is going to &#039;squish&#039; my soul! I had a situation recently that tested this and although initially upset I have let it go alot easier than i think I would have a few years ago which is a good feeling...I feel like my opinion of myself matters more these days! :-)
Thanks for another great post Anna.
Jen
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Anna<br />
It&#8217;s funny, as someone else commented this is something I have been thinking about recently too. I can identify with your story &#8211; I have a tendancy in the past to be a people pleaser and want everyone to like me and as you said be kind to people even when they are rude but I like your observation &#8211; it is about ego isn&#8217;t it? <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> .<br />
More recently I feel like I&#8217;m starting to be more authentic, I think as I get older I start to realise that not everyone is going to like me and trying to be &#8216;perfect&#8217; for everyone is going to &#8216;squish&#8217; my soul! I had a situation recently that tested this and although initially upset I have let it go alot easier than i think I would have a few years ago which is a good feeling&#8230;I feel like my opinion of myself matters more these days! <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Thanks for another great post Anna.<br />
Jen<br />
.-= Jen&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://reachourdreams.com/inspiring-people-part-1/" rel="nofollow">Inspiring People – Part 1</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 11:57:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Hi Kate&lt;/strong&gt;,

I’m happy this was timely for you! :) That is a good point about the ratings on psychic sites.  I’m sure there must be some people who aren’t tuned in and who just tell others what they want to hear and might get good ratings from it as a result.

&lt;strong&gt;Hi Michael&lt;/strong&gt;,

Now you strike me as someone who doesn’t give a f*** what other people think?! If so, that is a very good thing.

&lt;strong&gt;Hi KL&lt;/strong&gt;

I don’t know what this triggered but glad it did! Btw, I saw your lovely bump pics on Facebook – congratulations!

&lt;strong&gt;Hi Andrew,&lt;/strong&gt;

Wow, so I am surprised that those people reacted in that way.  
In some ways, I suppose being psychic is a bit like being gay or bisexual...you come out of the closet, or you could keep it to yourself. I guess in your case it depends on what it means to you (your sexuality).  

Well, one thing is true about being very freaky/unconventional – it filters out the intolerant people from your social circle :D which is a good thing. I think one of the things I definitely appreciate in friends and people in general is open-mindedness. 

&lt;strong&gt;Thanks Elly,&lt;/strong&gt;

I didn’t know you could tell about someone’s sexuality from their palm!  I remember when I used to read my grandmother’s handwriting analysis books, there was a lot of information about sexuality in there and it always amazed me that it’s possible tell that just from someone’s handwriting.  I am even more intrigued now with what you mention here. I will have to get a move on and send you my palm photos!

&lt;strong&gt;Hi Fran,&lt;/strong&gt;

Thanks for your comment! You know, I am really looking forward to being in Brisbane too! :D I think it will be a lot of fun (I just wrote a lot of gin for some reason!!) lol.

It’s funny isn’t it, how some people don’t like others monetizing their work.  

That is a good point you made - one of the great things about being yourself regardless of what others think is that you attract more people who resonate with you and your mindset.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Hi Kate</strong>,</p>
<p>I’m happy this was timely for you! <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  That is a good point about the ratings on psychic sites.  I’m sure there must be some people who aren’t tuned in and who just tell others what they want to hear and might get good ratings from it as a result.</p>
<p><strong>Hi Michael</strong>,</p>
<p>Now you strike me as someone who doesn’t give a f*** what other people think?! If so, that is a very good thing.</p>
<p><strong>Hi KL</strong></p>
<p>I don’t know what this triggered but glad it did! Btw, I saw your lovely bump pics on Facebook – congratulations!</p>
<p><strong>Hi Andrew,</strong></p>
<p>Wow, so I am surprised that those people reacted in that way.<br />
In some ways, I suppose being psychic is a bit like being gay or bisexual&#8230;you come out of the closet, or you could keep it to yourself. I guess in your case it depends on what it means to you (your sexuality).  </p>
<p>Well, one thing is true about being very freaky/unconventional – it filters out the intolerant people from your social circle <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  which is a good thing. I think one of the things I definitely appreciate in friends and people in general is open-mindedness. </p>
<p><strong>Thanks Elly,</strong></p>
<p>I didn’t know you could tell about someone’s sexuality from their palm!  I remember when I used to read my grandmother’s handwriting analysis books, there was a lot of information about sexuality in there and it always amazed me that it’s possible tell that just from someone’s handwriting.  I am even more intrigued now with what you mention here. I will have to get a move on and send you my palm photos!</p>
<p><strong>Hi Fran,</strong></p>
<p>Thanks for your comment! You know, I am really looking forward to being in Brisbane too! <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  I think it will be a lot of fun (I just wrote a lot of gin for some reason!!) lol.</p>
<p>It’s funny isn’t it, how some people don’t like others monetizing their work.  </p>
<p>That is a good point you made &#8211; one of the great things about being yourself regardless of what others think is that you attract more people who resonate with you and your mindset.</p>
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		<title>By: Fran</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 06:05:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lovely article Anna! People think I should work for free too with my blog, in my case it&#039;s everything on the Internet &quot;should&quot; be free but they forget I need to pay the rent too :)

I&#039;ve always had this habit of only saying what I think people would want me to say, look how I think they want me to look, and agreeing with people just to get along even if I really don&#039;t agree. But over the past 2 or 3 months I&#039;ve consciously made a choice to screw all that and get back to my core identity and it&#039;s AMAZING what benefits come with it - especially in my blog. I&#039;ve managed to attracted a readership of very like-minded and very beautiful people who love what I blog about and appreciate my own personal opinion. 

I really love the part about how people are mirrors of you, that&#039;s so true.

I love your blog! and ps- am looking forward to you being in Brisbane :)
.-= Fran&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.highonhealth.org/honey-i-shrunk-the-pores-product-review-some-beautiful-yellow-flowers/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Honey I Shrunk The Pores Product Review &amp; Some Beautiful Yellow Flowers&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lovely article Anna! People think I should work for free too with my blog, in my case it&#8217;s everything on the Internet &#8220;should&#8221; be free but they forget I need to pay the rent too <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve always had this habit of only saying what I think people would want me to say, look how I think they want me to look, and agreeing with people just to get along even if I really don&#8217;t agree. But over the past 2 or 3 months I&#8217;ve consciously made a choice to screw all that and get back to my core identity and it&#8217;s AMAZING what benefits come with it &#8211; especially in my blog. I&#8217;ve managed to attracted a readership of very like-minded and very beautiful people who love what I blog about and appreciate my own personal opinion. </p>
<p>I really love the part about how people are mirrors of you, that&#8217;s so true.</p>
<p>I love your blog! and ps- am looking forward to you being in Brisbane <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Fran&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.highonhealth.org/honey-i-shrunk-the-pores-product-review-some-beautiful-yellow-flowers/" rel="nofollow">Honey I Shrunk The Pores Product Review &amp; Some Beautiful Yellow Flowers</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: elly mackenzie</title>
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		<dc:creator>elly mackenzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 13:32:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Anna
Good on you love your work. Scammy pants hehe. Gotta admit the free palmistry thing wasn&#039;t too well with making an income, and maybe i&#039;m worth more than that. I&#039;m really under the grill now because asking everyone to ask me questions whether someone is gay, having an affair or have a sexual health question. Now do i really tell them the truth when i look at their palm? oh gosh...
.-= elly mackenzie&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://palmistrymarriage.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/free-palmistry-readings/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Free Palmistry readings&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Anna<br />
Good on you love your work. Scammy pants hehe. Gotta admit the free palmistry thing wasn&#8217;t too well with making an income, and maybe i&#8217;m worth more than that. I&#8217;m really under the grill now because asking everyone to ask me questions whether someone is gay, having an affair or have a sexual health question. Now do i really tell them the truth when i look at their palm? oh gosh&#8230;<br />
.-= elly mackenzie&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://palmistrymarriage.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/free-palmistry-readings/" rel="nofollow">Free Palmistry readings</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew Gubb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrew Gubb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 08:45:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like you too Anna! :)

I tried telling people on a web forum I frequent that I was bisexual. I don&#039;t know what I was expecting, but they totally flipped! Even a guy who I considered a good friend of mine and quite highly-conscious went a bit weird. So I&#039;m generally going to neglect to tell people in my social circle from now on. 

So imagine if I do Soul Realignment and start earning a living as a practitioner. Then I fall in love with a man and start going around holding hands with him. Then it becomes known that I dumpster dive for food. Or I become breatharian. 

...............Fun! :D

Andrew
.-= Andrew Gubb&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.andrewgubb.com/drupal/tests_for_truth&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tests for truth (How to find the truth in a world of lies series, part V)&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like you too Anna! <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I tried telling people on a web forum I frequent that I was bisexual. I don&#8217;t know what I was expecting, but they totally flipped! Even a guy who I considered a good friend of mine and quite highly-conscious went a bit weird. So I&#8217;m generally going to neglect to tell people in my social circle from now on. </p>
<p>So imagine if I do Soul Realignment and start earning a living as a practitioner. Then I fall in love with a man and start going around holding hands with him. Then it becomes known that I dumpster dive for food. Or I become breatharian. </p>
<p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;Fun! <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Andrew<br />
.-= Andrew Gubb&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.andrewgubb.com/drupal/tests_for_truth" rel="nofollow">Tests for truth (How to find the truth in a world of lies series, part V)</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Kara-Leah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kara-Leah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 06:30:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article - quick question.

As per usual, you&#039;ve twigged to something I need to let simmer for a bit.. . about the roles people in our lives and how relationships shift as a result.

Hmmm....

Love your work :)kl
.-= Kara-Leah&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://pranaflownz.com/2009/09/18/how-yogis-can-have-a-critical-impact-on-the-world/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How yogis can have a critical impact on the world&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article &#8211; quick question.</p>
<p>As per usual, you&#8217;ve twigged to something I need to let simmer for a bit.. . about the roles people in our lives and how relationships shift as a result.</p>
<p>Hmmm&#8230;.</p>
<p>Love your work <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> kl<br />
.-= Kara-Leah&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://pranaflownz.com/2009/09/18/how-yogis-can-have-a-critical-impact-on-the-world/" rel="nofollow">How yogis can have a critical impact on the world</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 18:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been a gay tax collector working in Georgia doing prostitution on the side all my life!  ;)  My moto has always been, &quot;F@ck &#039;em if they can&#039;t take a joke!&quot;  But I became sort of like an M&amp;M...the hard candy shell kept the sweet part sealed up and it began to rot.

But I have let it get to me sometimes; it seeps in somehow and sometimes you begin to believe it.

Thanks for the pep-talk...Mommy...  :)
.-= Michael&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://healedspirit.com/2009/09/18/why-do-the-rich-get-richer/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Why Do The Rich Get Richer?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been a gay tax collector working in Georgia doing prostitution on the side all my life!  <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   My moto has always been, &#8220;F@ck &#8216;em if they can&#8217;t take a joke!&#8221;  But I became sort of like an M&amp;M&#8230;the hard candy shell kept the sweet part sealed up and it began to rot.</p>
<p>But I have let it get to me sometimes; it seeps in somehow and sometimes you begin to believe it.</p>
<p>Thanks for the pep-talk&#8230;Mommy&#8230;  <img src='http://www.psychicbutsane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Michael&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://healedspirit.com/2009/09/18/why-do-the-rich-get-richer/" rel="nofollow">Why Do The Rich Get Richer?</a> =-.</p>
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